Do you heed to the advise of strangers?

I got an email from a stranger that just said "dude that James guy is all wrong for you" WTF. I mean everyone sees it except me. What the hell am i supposed to do about it? I love spending time with him, I love talking to him, He's a strong, smart, gentlemanly man. That has qualities that i want in someone i'm dating... but others think he's so bad for me...

HELP!!! (smilesteph@hotmail.com)